"I wish I had that belief..."

Last night, August 7th, Steven Curtis Chapman (Christian Songwriter/Singer) and family were on Larry King Live. For those who don’t know, back in May tragedy struck the family when their youngest son, who is 17, accidently ran over his 5 year old sister Maria. The last few months have been a time of pain as they have been forced to come face to face with their faith and find out exactly how strong it is. Though I didn’t actually see it last night, I did however see some clips from the interview. Though Larry tried not to focus on the faith issue itself, the Chapman’s stood firm on their belief that it is only by God and their faith in Him that is going to see them through this. It is definitely a touching interview.

What was amazing though is Larry monologue after it concerning the interview which he recorded this morning, Aug 8th. He goes to say that the story is one of Faith reassured and restored and one that he will never forget. He says that their faith is not something they lean on. It is something amazing. But he makes a small comment that speaks volumes about him. When referring to their beliefs and faith, he says, “I wish I had that belief…” He sees the strength and validity of their faith, but feels that he personally can’t take that step. Does he feel too inferior or not adequate enough? Is it something from his past that holds him back? Maybe fear? I don’t know, but something is keeping him from stepping out in faith.

This mindset is so prevalent in our culture. So many see the validity in faith and necessity to believe, but they cannot make the connection personally. They stand at a distance and say “I wish I had that belief…” but can’t make that dedication.

So how can they we help them move into a relationship with God? By being in relationship with them. We need to be authentic about or struggles and challenges. We need them to be able to see up close that having faith isn’t out of reach. Let them know you may question…you may not always understand.

Faith isn’t about understanding. Ultimately it has nothing to do with us. It all has to do with God and acknowledging that He loves each and every one of us and wants to take care of us. We may not see His plan, but we need to remember like all good parents, our Father will take care of us.

Live a life of faith. Be open and honest about it – both the ups and downs. And those around you will soon not be wishing for that faith, but living it themselves.

See Links for the Chapman Interview.

The Interview -
http://www.cnn.com/video/?/video/bestoftv/2008/08/08/lkl.chapman.tragedy.cnn

Larry’s After thoughts -
http://www.cnn.com/video/?/video/bestoftv/2008/08/08/lkl.about.thurs.cnn